Jessica Frew: Living Boldly Through Marriage, Coming Out, Divorce & Remarriage

Jessica Frew is a wife, ex-wife, mom, stepmom, and BOLD action taker. She has a successful podcast called “Husband in Law” that she records with her husband, Matt, and her ex-husband, Steve. Together they are sharing their stories of love, marriage, coming out, divorce, remarriage, and co-parenting to help others know they are not alone. They also co-own The BOLD Logic. A company devoted to helping people go from living in an “I should” mindset to taking BOLD action toward keeping and reclaiming their sense of self. Jessica is a firm believer that by knowing and understanding what it is you really want in life you can BOLDly create a life you love, no matter what your circumstances.

Listen in to hear Jessica share:

The process of finding out her husband was gay a year and a half into her marriage
How she, her ex-husband, and her current husband have owned and shared their story in a way that helps other couples
What a mixed orientation marriage is and how it works for different couples
The disservice we do to our children when we hold a narrow view of what marriage and family look like
What it’s like to be a member of a Mormon church and have a family that looks drastically different from a typical Mormon family
How she knew when to follow her intuition vs letting her ego go
How she navigated the hardest early years of her second marriage and the truth about hard seasons in marriage
The importance of healthy boundaries that bring others in – not just setting boundaries as defensive armor
How she listens to herself when things don’t go as planned, as well as the specific questions she asks herself in times of turmoil

Links mentioned:

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Podcast: Husband In Law
Jessica on IG: @husbandinlaw
Resources and Journal: The Boldlogic