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13: How to Be a Better Stalker and FanGirl

There is definitely no shame in my stalking game.  I am 100% open about my stalking habits.  Stalking has made me new friends and new partnerships that have improved my life in many ways.  That said, I am *not* a creeper.  It’s important to know the difference.  My stalking comes out of my desire to connect with certain people and figuring out how to create those connection opportunities, whether it’s a new friendship or a business relationship.

There are lots of really great reasons to engage your stalking skills:

  1. Expand your inner circle
  2. Make your inner circle more powerful
  3. Take a leap that will get you to the next level
  4. Hang out with people that are more successful than you
  5. Make authentic connections with people you truly admire

Note: When stalking, always be a *value adder* and a *puffer upper*.

How do you improve your stalking game?

  • Lead with a compliment
  • Find common ground upon which to build a relationship
  • When all else fails, be a supporter and a cheerleader
  • Allow your words and actions to let tell stalkee (yes, real word) you are trying to build a genuine/not creepy relationship

I was able to use these tips recently to connect with someone I hugely admire, Lewis Howes.  Please note our GORGEOUS photo on this episode art!  I was very intentional about trying to connect with him, and I happened to connect 3 different times (total #fangirl SCORE!) Lewis and his podcast, The School of Greatness, were a huge inspiration to me starting this podcast.  So, you can imagine how pumped I was to meet him.  Make sure to listen in to my fangirl story.

Worth noting – stalking is not super comfortable for me, but I want to GO PLACES and I want to connect with the people who are already in those places.  It is these scary leaps out of our comfort zone that change everything – for the better.  “What doesn’t challenge you doesn’t change you.”

13: How to Be a Better Stalker and FanGirl
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